The purpose of a relationship is not to fill the holes, but to boost the full being that’s already there. Be what you want more of—if you’re the person you want to be, the relationship will just enhance your life. Be sure to write down exactly what you want in a partner—be specific, but focus less on the details and more on the end goal. When I was in the process of manifesting mine, I wrote down the following key characteristics that I wanted in a life partner (seriously, these are the real words, I kept the document so I could refer to it when I found myself in a relationship to see if this stuff actually works—it does):
For a more complete treatment, see if you can identify where in the past you learned these beliefs and associations, and go back over those experiences, treating yourself as you go for any intense memories that come up. Often you will find that to do so leads to a complete restructuring of the early experience, allowing you to see it from a more empowering perspective and creating a profound shift in the related beliefs.
The Law of Attraction is very similar. As with all the laws of our universe, we understand that these laws do work, even though we don’t necessarily understand how to define them. So, quantum mechanics aside, read on to know how learn about this universal law and how it applies to you.
Again, rather than experiencing pride or feeling boastful, this is about understanding and seeing how the Law of Attraction is already a part of your life. It’s always existed, but now you are aware of it.
I started with manifesting pennies in the Summer of 2006. Then I graduated to nickels, dimes, and quarters. I focused on quarters for several weeks. Then I progressed to dollars to $100 to $1000 to $10K to $50K. Overall it took less than a year to go from manifesting pennies to manifesting $50K. After that point I become more interested in non-monetary manifesting and had some especially fun times with manifesting in my social life — friends, mentors, and other yumminess. In fact, I honestly feel that manifesting money is a bit boring compared to all the other cool stuff you can manifest. It’s like playing a video game and obsessing over the score. That can be fun for a while, but eventually you want to focus on more interesting aspects of the game world.
Remember, we live in a universe where everything is created twice, first in the non-physical, then in the physical. The more you focus on telling the old story, the more you’ll be attracting circumstances and experiences that will sustain and perpetuate your old story. So what is the solution?
If this is you, take heart; love could be just around the corner. I know this is true because I experienced this myself in my mid 40’s. I had to take a step back and take a good look at how I had been approaching my search for love.
I did go there again, several times in fact. Each time it wasn’t so bad and it built strength and reverence for the power of uncertainty. I now look back on these times as such a beautiful blessing because I can truly appreciate the abundance today (and it’s not just money) I have created in my own life.
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The truth is you might not even know what will make you happy. Loosen up a bit. Stop focusing so hard on things being perfect, and welcome what comes with happiness. That will signal the world to send more of it.
1. Replace your limiting beliefs and quiet your inner critic. If you’re reading this, you already know that you’re not satisfied with your current situation. The first step in the right direction is to change the beliefs that are keeping you from growing beyond it. Limiting thoughts such as; “who would want me?” or “I’m too fat to have my soul mate come into my life.” You must free your mind and believe that any outcome is possible.
Paychecks make you happy, while bills made you put on your cranky pants with annoyance and anxiety. You need to rewire this in order to get out of your own way. Each time you feel pissed off when a bill gets sent to you then you actively choose to block the flow of abundance and you’re inviting MORE BILLS and more expenses. Nothing is as expensive as an attitude that blocks the flow of prosperity. Learn to LOVE your money. After all, it’s just energy.
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When you commit to manifesting your soulmate you’re saying, in essence, that you’re ready for the next stage of your unfoldment, your evolution. That you are willing to go and discover the best gifts that are emerging from within you, and to do the same with somebody else, while you support them along their journey.
If you are still single, yet you desire Love, there is a reason you are not experiencing it. 10 times out of 10, women in this situation, have unconscious fears around relationships and heartbreak. Keeping yourself single is a protection mechanism, it is not some Universal force denying you of Love. If it has happened for your friends, it can happen for you when you learn how to transform your subconscious patterns.
Wow. We must learn to take accountability for ourselves and the inner work. Nobody saves us, we save ourselves and then the universe reflects this self-love back to us. Whatever we give to ourselves becomes reflected to us in our external reality through the Law of Attraction. Everything starts from within, and is mirrored externally.
Another important step is giving your money a purpose. You need to do this down to every last dollar. You can do this two ways. First, list all of your non-negotiables — these are the things you have to pay every single month. Then, list things you would like to do, such as put away savings, invest in stocks, put away for retirement, purchase clothing, go to a spa. Add all of these things up, and that final number is your goal for the month.
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Secondly, make sure that there is no negative feeling attached to it. For example, if you are wishing for a then do not worry yourself about where the money for paying the mortgage is going to come from.
So, your responsibility, starting today, is to gently uncover the wounds of your heart and begin the healing process so that you can send out a clear signal to the Universe that you have started to heal, and that you are now ready for love. And you can start doing that right now, through the power of forgiveness.
Be sure to include in this group only positive, trustworthy people with whom you can share this journey, and who can hold your vision with you. And, be sure to exclude any friends, or family members who are skeptical, negative, sarcastic and who can actually bring you down. That’s the last thing you need! If you feel that you’d like my support as your coach, I am available for one-on-one coaching and provide you with my professional guidance and experience.
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Practice any and all of the exercises you want to. Try every exercise at least once. There are no hard and fast rules, so feel free to tweak these exercises and make them your own. These are aids to help you overcome any challenges you might face while attempting to work with the Law of Attraction.
A group of 4,000 meditators volunteered to meditate on peace and love to reduce the amount of crime in the high-crime Washington, DC area. A team of scientists and researchers approached the project without bias and tested for every variable imaginable.
Think of yourself as a consciousness being played out by God just as a wave is part of the ocean that is being played out by the ocean. This theory of nature will promote the kind of trust that you need to attract to yourself all that belongs to you in the universe. You cannot receive it or even come close to manifesting it if you have an absence of trust in yourself as an extension of God.
You’ve unconsciously shut down. After being hurt and disappointed, a part of you may be trying to protect your heart from future pain. Unfortunately, this also shuts you off from the potential to find love as well.
Brainstorm some reasons why you feel or think positively about money. As we considered above, there are probably many times when you’ve thought about what it means to lack money, forming beliefs and feelings about how money is easy to lose, hard to find, something other people have, and so on.
Finally, start every day by tuning into your heart. Visualize being with the one you love, and let a warm, golden glow fill your chest. This is the energy that will propel you through the day on exactly the right frequency to attract love.