By doing so, you can then apply your knowledge and gain wisdom, exhibited by thinking first before speaking and acting. Explore the mysteries out there, and be open to new ideas and areas for self improvement.
A lot of what closes us off to connections is being overly judgmental of the people who show up in our lives. Having a strict “must have” list a mile long for our prospective partner is often just a form of self-sabotage.
Now, suppose that you begin to get clear about the kind of person that your soulmate is. And you decide he or she is Abundant, Affectionate, Ambitious, Beautiful, Caring, Charismatic, Considerate, Creative, and so forth. Now, imagine that this person – who possess all of these wonderful qualities – was simultaneously looking back at you and secretly seeing you the way that you are right now, do you think that they would be proud of what they were seeing? Would they be interested in hanging out with you, in dating you? Chances are, the answer is no.
When you feel good and then you will get amazing ideas, and positive motivation to take efficient actions, call the right person, and bump into the exact thing/person you need to get manifest your desires into reality.
Step 4 is important for two reasons. The first is that it aligns you with your desires. The entire concept behind the Law of Attraction is that like attracts like. When you take action as if you’ve already gotten what you desire, you are sending a huge, loud and clear message to the universe that you’re serious. Actions speak louder than words, right?
I heard of this law some time ago. My business was not getting the money owed in as quickly as I needed it to at this time. I went to bed imagining opening the envelopes with the cheques inside, and within one week, the monies I was particularly worried about came to me. I do not feel particularly wealthy but life does seem to send what I need. For that I am truly grateful.
Shelly Bullard, MFT is a Marriage and Family Therapist, Love Coach and Spiritual Teacher. She’s the author of the eBook: How to Become the Most Attractive Version of Yourself which she offers for FREE (click here to receive your free copy). She’s also the instructor of the popular mbg courses: How To Become The Most Attractive Version of Yourself & How to Attract a Partner Who’s Ready for Deep, Devoted Love. Shelly believes that when you access the experience of Love within yourself, your relationships become deeply fulfilling and you become the person you’re meant to be. She was named the “Love Guru” as one of the 100 Women to Watch in Wellness by mindbodygreen, and her deepest passion is living and practicing love and relationships as a spiritual path. To learn more about how she can help you create more love in your life, visit her at: shellybullard.com.
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Step 2: There’s an old cliché that claims you can’t love others unless you love yourself. However, there is truth in this saying and it can have a major impact on whether you’re able to successfully manifest love. Specifically, you attract love with people who are aligned with your vibrational state. So if you are down on yourself or lack confidence, you often find love only with people who treat you poorly and fail to recognize your worth. Therefore, looking for love with real intention requires you to form a deeper, more profound and accepting connection with yourself.
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1. Replace your limiting beliefs and quiet your inner critic. If you’re reading this, you already know that you’re not satisfied with your current situation. The first step in the right direction is to change the beliefs that are keeping you from growing beyond it. Limiting thoughts such as; “who would want me?” or “I’m too fat to have my soul mate come into my life.” You must free your mind and believe that any outcome is possible.
If you really want to attract a specific person, then ironically it would probably be best to let go of the need to be with them. Dating other people will make you more attractive to them anyway, and you might actually end up together.
If you follow this strategy without omitting any single step, you will start attracting whatever you want and it will begin to manifest. Have a great combination of clear idea of what you want, a specific goal with a time frame, high level of desire, high intensity of belief, frequent visualization and repetition of your positive thoughts to attract and manifest whatever you desire in your life.
Examine your beliefs about love and clean up any beliefs that don’t support attracting, having and keeping your perfect relationship (“I’m not attractive enough.” “I don’t make enough money.” “All the good ones are taken”).
It’s not just about “loving yourself” on the surface. It’s about having CORE beliefs aligned with the truth of who you are. A beautiful Soul that is a gift to this world. Most times we don’t truly allow ourselves to know this truth, out of fear, traumas, and early conditioning, and so our untruth shows up in our relationships.
Know that the cash and the opportunities are right in front of your face. You just have to adjust your “eyes” to see them. You do this by shifting your vibe — your frequencies of thought and emotion — to one that’s capable of detecting the money.
When you notice that you’re getting frustrated, pause, breathe, and go back to the desire side. Hold that vision of the creation you wish to experience, and wallow in the positive sensations of being there in your heart, mind, and spirit. Know that physical reality will soon catch up, as long as you keep holding the right vibe.
It’s easy to want to sprint through to the end of the year without stopping and taking a moment to acknowledge the year that’s been, all that you have achieved, and all the growth that’s taken place. In fact, I’ve heard a lot of people say they can’t wait for this year to be over, or that this year was their worst year yet. (I’ve even heard peeps refer to 2016 as ‘two thousand and shit-teen’!) Now sure, I understand you may have had a challenging year — but it’s all perfect. Everything always is! Everything is always unfolding the way it’s supposed to. So, before you write this year off as a total shit sandwich, please take a moment to reflect back… you may be pleasantly surprised.
So, practice mutual trust, share your problems often and be completely honest and open in front of each other. A very good technique is to create mutual affirmations and read them together every night before sleeping.
It’s difficult to free yourself completely from doubt, fear or feeling as though you don’t deserve something. Your instinct might try to combat those feelings using negative thoughts like, “Don’t be afraid” or even direct conflicts like, “You deserve this.” Unfortunately, such methods are ineffective and simply don’t work because they reinforce negative thoughts and feelings.
The Law of Attraction listens to what it is that you are projecting into the world. Never doubt the power of energy. Let the Universe do its job. Your job is to be present, positive, and believe in yourself. When you believe in what you want, it has no choice but to come true.
Create a playlist of songs that you connect to emotionally about the future of your love life. Don’t choose things that remind you of a boyfriend you had when you were 17. Make sure you choose songs that make you look forward to your future love life.
For example, if you dreamed that you were being chased by an ominous creature through the dark streets of a strange city, that would be the manifest content of the dream. What that dream might actually mean, or the interpretation of its symbolic meaning, would be considered the latent content.